Dear ScientistGeorge and other EFT'ians, I am quite blown away by Ros' situation. She is lucky that her husband stuck around her inspite of all the issues.Unfortunately, I have somewhat similar issues but my husband has neither forgiven and also has applied for divorce. I believe in my heart...

Thanks, Suzanne, that's a great suggestion. I'll definitely tap for that. Your other observations are spot-on. We've been though all this before (when we first met) - and since he recovered from that depression (with bouts of overwhelming rage) he considers the issues "dealt with"...

Thanks, PJ. Your answers certainly resonate - that was already my feeling about what's been going on for him. There are a lot of complex emotions bundled up under this illness of his, and one of them is about feeling immensely unsafe (which stems from his being repeatedly bullied by the children...

Hi Ros, You haven't mentioned anything about surrogate tapping? I would suggest you do some searching for some positive experiences of surrogate EFT tapping if you need some encouragement of it's potential. As you are in deep relationship, and from your description, you are quite able to resonate...