Dear ScientistGeorge and other EFT'ians, I am quite blown away by Ros' situation. She is lucky that her husband stuck around her inspite of all the issues.Unfortunately, I have somewhat similar issues but my husband has neither forgiven and also has applied for divorce. I believe in my heart...

Hi Erika, Thanks so much for reaching out and speaking up. I think this use of EFT is growing and I'm very excited about this. I was actually introduced to EFT during a painful divorce - at the time it felt like I couldn't imagine ever being in a happy relationship again. Like you, there have...

Hi everyone, I'm new to this forum, though not at all new to EFT and Gary Craig. I have devoted myself to applying EFT to everything, but especially to dating and relationships. I felt surprised to see that there was no category on the forum for "Relationships," so I'm posting here...

Hello, I know about the EFT for some time and had tried it now and then. In some instances I had immediate result, but somehow I lack the persistance or I do get lost in what issues I should focus on. Sometimes I also have problems with sensing the grade of the feeling or the difference that EFT does...

I just wanted to post an update, particularly to thank of all of you who helped me in my darkest hour! Everything has resolved, and the miracles that I tapped for have come to pass. My husband has recovered his health, after nearly five years of chronic (and debilitating) illness. He has also recovered...

Hello again, In general, the qualities we love in others are qualities we have ourselves, but maybe, our experiences have shaded them. Each quality has a spectrum from a perceived negative to positive. Somewhere along the line we have decided that it was not acceptable to, for example, be generous or...

Welcome dianek! That sounds ideal..That's where EFT comes in to work on individual issues, which can be neediness and all kinds of other triggers which can come in the way especially in subsequent relationships...It is a vast subject...

Hello, The previous suggestions are excellent. Just another thought, about boundaries, how easily do you find saying what you want or what you don't want? By the way, I love solitude and I would love a relationship too..You are not alone... Fabienne

Hi there, I appreciate your post and Marian's suggestions. I share her sense that perhaps there is an either/or in your thinking that might not be serving you well. I have a different way of how I'd suggest going about working with your situation. EFT is known as an energy psychology technique...

Hello AnaHelia, I did not realise this was not for you...it does not matter... I scanned the article you mentioned and it is very interesting, it mostly deals with people who do internet dating and the temptation to keep looking on the screen for what you may be missing which takes away the focus on...