Dear ScientistGeorge and other EFT'ians, I am quite blown away by Ros' situation. She is lucky that her husband stuck around her inspite of all the issues.Unfortunately, I have somewhat similar issues but my husband has neither forgiven and also has applied for divorce. I believe in my heart...

I started having fear of being alone back in 1989 and still can't be alone from this terrible fear. Does anyone have this besides me? It's so hard because I always have to have someone at home with me and everywhere I go. I am 43 years old now and this is just terrible, I feel like a child. I...

hi Bodhileaf and Gill and friends. back again 6 months later. Still tapping away on the old subject. very little seems to have changed that I can see or feel. I'm marginally less "dead" feeling than i was but it really is marginal. what HAS happened is that i now feel I feelingly understand...

Recently I went through a relationship breakup that was more traumatizing than I expected. It is apparent that on many levels that this was past trauma in my life, specifically abandonment issues. I am using the EFT handbook and trying to get rid of the angry flare-ups and crying jags that erupt when...

Hello, I subscribe to Mercola' s newsletter. I am usually too busy to read it all but I attempt to scan the headlines. I certainly don't take all he says as 'law', but sometimes I find some interesting things. Here is the link for great article today. Important information to support...

Hi Melinderry, Rather than giving you a few random tapping statements to try during your month away, you may be better off using the time you have before you go to print off a few free ebooks and other resources to bring with you. Then you can learn some actual approaches, organize your thoughts and...

Perfectionism is often just a part of a reaction to feeling shamed - and there are so many things that can shame a child. Critical parents is one, but also being required, or feeling that it's your job as a child, to take care of your parents. Any age-inappropriate behaviour can lead to feeling not...

Hi Melinderry, I am just at my computer briefly but if you do feel you have the energy to focus on your 'mother' issues, I wanted to share some info. about Carna Zacharis-Miller who is a specialist in mother abandonment (including emotional abandonment... around physically, but not emotionally...

Thanks, Deborah! I just read your article- I appreciate you having that open to the public. I also sifted through your site and it brought up some good ideas. I had a question about fear: I read that fear tends to have to do with abandonment issues. Do you have any suggestions for successful abandoment...

Hello I would like some opinions on how to work on myself with the above problems I use eft on myself for various things and love it but I kind of dont know where to start with this one I am fine going to new places and doing new things if I'm with another person or a group but if I have to go someone...