Search results matching tag 'willingness'

Re: Headache help

SkyWatcher — Wed, 18 Jun 2008 06:57:14 GMT

Hello,

I think that you are on the right track.

You have some great ideas for set-up phrases. If you husband is willing to tap on these and he can change the ones that don’t work for him. The idea of course is get to what emotions are involved with his headaches. How does he feel about having them. Maybe his headaches are trying to tell him something. Many times pain can be a messenger--a feeling that is waiting to be felt and let go of. When it is let go of, then it is gone, and possibly the pain of the headache or part of the pain, unless there is more to it--other aspects. Just imagine puzzle pieces being put together.

For fastest results--go for the biggies. Some people aren't ready to go fast because they are more comfortable with their condition than letting it go too quickly. They can go at a slower pace. We are always at choice. Sometimes people feel comfortable enough to let a condition that has been part of their life for decades and decades. I have personally seen people let it go in a twinkling of a eye.

From my experience, EFT can still work if the person doesn’t believe in, and yet believing in it can add to it. However, a person’s willingness is important.

Here are some set-up phrases Even though:

I have doubts about EFT working for my headache because I have tried EFT and it only helped a little and the process exhausted me. I am not sure if EFT will help my headache, and I deeply and completely love and accept myself.
There may be a part of me who doesn’t quite know who I will be with my headaches...
I feel furious that I have had these headaches for 12, and it really makes me angry that I haven’t been able to get rid of them for all of these years…

Let me know what happens.

Gratefully yours,

JoAnn

Intro: Living a Full Life with Chronic Pain.

Gary Rocha — Mon, 14 Apr 2008 12:14:01 GMT

Hello -

This is to introuce myself as one who is living a full Qaulity Life by Managing Chronic Pain.

Hi ... my name is Gary Rocha, a retired Canadian now living in Europe. EFT was referred to me by some friends on the Internet whom I have not personally met, but whom have been very supportive of me..

I trust that this is another direction I'm being guided to take, which has been the case ever since my 'process' started in earnest shortly after my release from hospital. Being as I am new here, I have not fully read the site, which I already see holds much information! However, just from a quick scan over the site and this (taken from above): It is an emotional version of acupressure wherein certain meridian release points are gently stimulated by tapping on them with the fingertips. I think the technique is not totally foreign to me, as I underwent a similar technique called Body Work with my own therapy! The difference however, is the pressure for application on the meridian lelease points.

The reading I think will prove very interesting!

My dear friend is recovering from brain stem surgery

newgrace — Mon, 24 Mar 2008 18:16:59 GMT

She is recovering slowly and is now in a rest home and just begining phys. therapy and can wash her face now, with help! This is wonderful.

My friend has many emotional issues from her childhood and always sabotages herself, especially where weight is concerned AND adult interactions - she tends to create problems via passive aggression or non-communication (guess what I'm thinking, since I'll sniff and say 'I'm fine' and then judge others for not reading her mind).

She is a very kind and loving person and despite how hurtful the above behaviors can be, she is worth working hard with and being a friend to.

Now she is in a hospital bed, still in serious condition, and I'm afraid that the emotional reversals that I know are involved in the above behaviors may end up killing her.

Is it safe to try to surrogate tap for her when I go and see her this next weekend? It's been 8 weeks since the surgery in Seattle and the entire mass was removed from the brain stem. She is still on a respirator through her trachea and they are trying to wean her off of that so that she can start to breath on her own. She is delayed in many aspects of her recovery and I fear that if I don't work on her she may not recover at all.

I was thinking of something very gentle, such as:

Even though I have had this mass, I profoundly and deeply love and accept myself and I am ready to heal

Even though recovery is so very hard, I profoundly and deeply am proud of myself and my body and my amazing ability to heal and get completely well

Even though I feel bad to be away from my family, I proufoundly and deeply love and accept myself and my need to heal to be with them again

Does this sound right? Is this appropriate? I would ask her first if I could tap, since I don't want to overrun anyone, but then I am afraid that because she has so badly sabotaged herself in the past with such self-destructive behaviors that she'd say no.

If she does say no, can I tap on myself as though I am Sherri and would I do that in her presence?

Any input would be very appreciated.

Blessings,

Re: Fall as a Child

estersouza — Wed, 12 Mar 2008 02:16:58 GMT

JoAnn,

I will focus on these recommendations and see where that takes me.

Just being able to think of a blockage and calling attention to it has amazingly lightened me up. It's almost like there are no real words to describe it.

I guess the best expression is for me is to be going from being hypersensitive (like what a sunburn would feel like) to being normal-sensitive (like when you're not burned).

I have also been calling attention to my fear of success and to sugar addiction as well a nervous habit of picking scabs and hangnails.

The anxiety and fatigue are beginning to lift. Not all at once, but I do sense it a measure at a time. I've only been aware of this since last week Thursday 3/6/2008.

I am astonished about my results so far.

I've been convinced that I would live out my life lugging the weight of emotional pain and hurt.

Today, I finally feel that there is real hope for life to be light of heart.

I don't believe that we were originally created to be heavy of heart.

I will continue to post my progress. Dreams do happen~Ester

Gary got it from Roger.

Anonymous — Tue, 12 Feb 2008 00:12:34 GMT

EFT is a recycled version of TFT...originated by Roger Callahan in the 80's(see my video). Gary embellished it and gives no credit(in his youtube vids)to Roger...but this is FAR more than not, based on ROGER's work. TFT. A Ford is still a Ford...even if you choose to forget about Henry.

Please Share

Nancy Stoltenberg — Sat, 22 Dec 2007 17:21:34 GMT

At the top of my Christmas list is the DVD library. I'm new to EFT, totally believe in it, and want to learn all I can. With six children, affording the DVD's just isn't possible yet. I see that DVD owners are allowed to copy and share with 100 other people. Would anyone like to share their set with me? Email me at: nanstomom@gmail.com if you are my "Santa." Thanks!

Re: Recurrent leg pain

SkyWatcher — Thu, 13 Dec 2007 16:31:47 GMT

I am so happy for you both! When you get results, like your partner did, it can really make a difference in your attitude about EFT and your willingness to try it on anything.

Watch out world!

Gratefully yours,

JoAnn

Re: Diabedies

SkyWatcher — Tue, 13 Nov 2007 00:23:04 GMT

Dear Karen,

I am so happy to hear that you were able to bring your blood sugar level to what it should be and that your energy level has increased!!!

I believe that EFT is most successful when you are willing to go deep, and get to the mental and emotional causes of ailments (as you are doing). Your strong intent and you willingness to do whatever it takes is making a difference in your own healing.

Also, in sharing your successes here on this Forum, you are showing others that there is hope for them. You are mentoring for others.

Remember to come back to the place within yourself where you know that you are Whole and Complete. I incorporate that with my clients when they get their SUD level down to around a "3" (and I know it as a truth for them, and for you).

Gratefully yours,

JoAnn

Asking for Healing

strobers — Tue, 23 Oct 2007 17:11:29 GMT

I am having a good day today. My bladder is behaving itself. I've come to the conclusion after just about every medical test known to mankind has come back negative, that there is nothing wrong with me physically. I have some underlying issue(s) that are the cause of my bladder issue, which is closely entwined with the whole issue of self-love which from the beginning triggered my bladder problems.

My wife and I watch a DVD every evening before we go to bed and then we talk about it or rewind the DVD to see things again so we can understand everything clearly. We both are firm believers in the power of EFT. Yesterday, we saw the DVD of the woman who said she wanted to be lose weight, but Gary tested her and she was psychologically reversed. Because I have made little head-way towards wellness, I asked my wife to test me after we were done watching the DVD and it was obvious that although conciously I want to get well, a part of me wants to be sick. I'm not sure what the secondary gain is, but I hope to find out.

I'm asking the EFT community if you could please do surrogate tapping for me so that I can heal both physically and spirtually. I firmly believe that I can be completely well. I have faith in the process and the power of collective thought and energy.

Thank you.

strobers

Re: Knocking down forests of "tail-enders" abundance/performance

Kim Eisen — Fri, 12 Oct 2007 18:34:26 GMT

Dear Rusty Rock,

Fabulous table, I think it covers much of our inherent self-sabatoge. Great job. I would send this into Gary with some examples on the way you have used this table for the newsletter.

As far as Abundance attractors: I believe it's pretty simple. You should focus on great feelings (feeling good) first and foremost in order to raise your vibration. Until that's done, no amount of focusing on a certain amount will usually get you anywhere as you won't be in the vibration of allowing or receiving until that's accomplished.

There is the fine line between desiring something and being attached to the outcome. For instance if you want a million dollars, but vibrationally your saying inside to yourself, 'it's not here', 'will it really come', 'I don't know if this really works' 'I'm not worth it'; it's probably not going to work. So, until your vibrationally 'set' I would focus on the good feelings, and 'know' that you are abundant. Once you're in that childhood innocence stage of feeling good and 'knowing' all is well, then would be a good time to just say 'thanks for the million dollars that's coming my way' and imagine or play with it while you're in top vibration what it would feel like as if it's happening. Yet, be open to the universe bringing you even better than you thought. And, I'm sure you know, but abundance is much more than dollars. Dollars just help you have fun, like 'fun tickets'.

Namaste'

Kim Eisen