Search results matching tag 'money'

Re: Getting up the emotional scale to wealth...

successfuleft — Mon, 26 Oct 2009 16:25:12 GMT

Hi Mitch,

Thanks for sharing this. Like a number of other EFT practitioners (Carol Look, Chip Engelmann, Sejual Shah, Lynne Shaner come to mind), I combine EFT and attraction principles in my work with clients. I find it's a fantastic combination to allow people to attract money and success.

Here's a couple of points I'd make:

1) In your post, you say, "This stuff really is difficult in practice". I encourage you to explore this belief and tap on it. In my experience, it doesn't have to be difficult.

2) Recall that attraction principles teach, like in the work of Ester & Jerry Hicks, it is our consistent feelings and beliefs that make up our experience.

3) It's next to impossible to go in one leap from very low levels on the Emotional Scale to consistently feeling very high vibrations over time.

4) Practitioner Sejual Shah and I call the "work your way up one step at a time" approach The Incremental Approach to Abundance. It's very effective for our clients.

5) I suggest to my clients to print out the Emotional Scale and put it up somewhere visible like your fridge, desk or bathroom mirror. It helps you become more mindful about what your current money emotions are. You can get a copy by clicking here.

6) Like all EFT success, using EFT successfully for abundance requires our ability to find and clear core issues. Here is an article called the EFT for Abundance: The 3 Best Ways to Find Your Blocks.

Hope this is helpful.

With much love,

Paul

Re: Why isn't everyone rich?

successfuleft — Wed, 09 Sep 2009 14:43:43 GMT

Claire,

Thanks for sharing your thoughts. One thing I've noticed that happens around the subject of being rich is that it's a charged subject for most people. These intense emotions get in the way of having a clear and centered relationship to creating what we want. I agree that everyone gets to define "rich" for her/himself. At same time, I think it's important to define from a clear intention of knowing what you want instead of reacting from a place of strong emotions. That's where EFT comes in - clear the negative charge and it gets a whole lot easier to create your own rich life.

Blessings,

Paul

Re: Confusion from a Newbie!

successfuleft — Wed, 09 Sep 2009 04:29:22 GMT

Van,

So glad to hear that you're feeling calmer about your approach. Doing a happy calm dance for you ..

Suzanne also has a great point - once you calm your energy, start to explore specific issues that are in way of your abundance goals. If you're not sure what they are, I have a tool I developed to help you find them. It's called Money Matrix and you can read more about it here: http://paulzelizer.com/intro-to-money-matrix/

If you need help figuring out how to apply EFT to the issues that surface in this exercise, feel free to send me a message.

Blessings,

Paul

Re: What do you think happened?

successfuleft — Sat, 06 Jun 2009 13:23:51 GMT

Hi RBrown,

I can sense your frustration and confusion. Thanks for reaching out.

As a practitioner who specializes in using EFT for Abundance, I work with many people each week on this topic. Your story is not an uncommon one. When it comes to abundance, it takes a bit more skill to use EFT successfully. It's not like a headache where if it's gonna work, you can tell immediately. One of the biggest mistakes I see people make when using EFT for Abundance is not following the EFT success guideline of "Be Specific". People tend to tap on things like wanting more money, wanting to win the lottery and the like.

The first step I recommend is to get a very clear picture of your current energetic relationship with money. To help people do this, I offer a free worksheet and video at http://www.moneymake2.com/images/Healing_Your_Money_Matrix.pdf

Once you know what your current energy blocks with money are, then you tap on them. For instance, one client saw a big pile of money on the other side of a 3" plate glass wall that was just past her nose. When we explored what the plate glass wall was about, it represented a host of limiting beliefs she got from her parents. We tapped on each of these aspects and her business started to steadily increase by about 10% a month. And, she's enjoying her work MUCH more.

The other mistake I see people make is trying to take steps that are to big for them. For instance, a client who was earning about $30,000 a year set the goal of becoming a billionaire. Energetically what happened is that she couldn't feel the pathway from where she was to being a billionaire and she got discouraged. But, she kept pushing herself anyway. When we started working together, we came up with more incremental goals. Her first step was to increase her income to $45,000 and she is on track to do that this year. A 50% increase in one year is something to celebrate and more than pays for the work we do together.

Hope this helps,

Paul

Re: New into EFT

successfuleft — Fri, 01 May 2009 20:24:26 GMT

Hey Theuns,

Welcome to the EFT community. The process and wording you are describing is correct if you are using "Mechanical EFT". The problem is that neither I nor any reputable EFT coach I know has seen mechanical EFT lead to success with abundance issues. Instead, successfully increasing our income with EFT usually has two parts: 1) finding the limiting beliefs (EFT calls these tail-enders) that are getting in the way of making more money and 2) implementing a clear strategy for attraction more money in our lives.

The process of doing this involves what EFT founder Gary Craig calls "intuitive EFT". I have a whole site with lots of free resources dedicated to learning how to do this. There are others on this forum who do as well such as Practitioner Chip Englemann. Chip has a very extensive free ebook called th Born Loser's Guide to Abundance. His site is www.ChipEFT.com

Good luck on your abundance journey.

With much love,

Paul

Re: Some Help getting the wording right

successfuleft — Mon, 20 Apr 2009 14:54:33 GMT

Hi Mikal,

Thanks for reaching out to the forums. Using EFT for increasing abundance is an art that takes a particular skillset. It's quite a bit different than tapping away a back ache. Good news is that there's lots of free info out there that will help you learn how to do this.

One technique that I like to share with clients new to using EFT in this way is the "Using the Tailender Technique". This technique has four basic steps:

Identify a positive statement of what you want. For instance, "I easily and consistently earn $100,000 per year."
Get in comfortable sitting position and center yourself for a few moments by paying attention to your breath.
Say your positive statement aloud. "I easily and consistently earn $100,000 per year."
Most important step: Notice what happens in your mind and your body when you say this outloud.

Most people find that they have some blocks when it comes to their yet to be achieved abundance goals. In EFT, these blocks are called Tailenders. They often come up as negative self talk ("Yeah right, I'm never gonna make $100,000 per year") or negative feelings in the body (a clenching feeling in the stomach).

After you have identified these blocks, then you tap on them using the words or quality of the feeling in your sequence.

With much love,

Paul

Re: Appreciating the little abundances

successfuleft — Sun, 12 Apr 2009 12:56:50 GMT

Glad it was helpful Kat. Much love and abundance to you.

Paul

EFT for Income Increasing Behaviors

successfuleft — Fri, 03 Apr 2009 22:39:01 GMT

Hey all,

I recently wrote this piece and thought it might be helpful here on the abundance forum.

One of the keys to success with EFT is the guideline, "Be Specific". While making more money is one of the most common things people want to change in their lives, many forget to follow this important EFT wisdom when it comes to finances. In fact, getting specific about HOW she or he is going to make more money is often the turning point in a client's abundance journey.

Let's use the example of meeting with a prospect, an important step in many businesses. Here's how EFT can help.

First, imagine getting ready for a meeting like this. Notice what happens in your body as you imagine this meeting. Pay attention to any tension in your body and negative emotions that come up as you do this exercise. These are indicators to your abundance blocks. Here's four steps to clearing these blocks:

1) Imagine drawing a picture of the negative emotions. Notice where in your body these feelings live and what the images look like. Rate the intensity of these feelings on a scale of 1-10. This gives you information for your tapping sequence.

2) Design a custom tapping sequence. Take what's happening in your body and work it into an EFT sequence. If you feel a burning red fear in your stomach, then use the set up phrase, "Even though I have this burning red fear in my stomach when it comes to meeting with a prospect, I love and accept myself anyway."

3) Test and tap on remaining negative emotion. Check back in with your situation - like our meeting with a prospect example. The most common result of a round of tapping is that the intensity goes down with some remaining. Reconnect with your body and notice the feelings and images now. If there are still some negative emotions, do another round of tapping with the phrase: "Even though I still have some of this burning red fear feeling in my stomach, I love and accept myself anyway."

4) Tap in the positive. Tapping in the positive is when you tap on your preferred outcome. For instance, in our example you could tap on "Even though in the past I've felt nervous and afraid about meeting with a prospect, I can now feel the possibility of being relaxed and enjoying these meetings."

I've used this basic four step process with clients around sales meetings, writing website copy, creating dynamic newsletters, coming up with new products, designing coaching programs and much more. Whatever business you are in, you can use these basic principles to clear away the negative emotions that are limiting your income and align your energy with positive, income producing behaviors that will take your finances to the next level.

Hope this is useful.

With much love,

Paul

How I am getting over debt and abundance issues and many others!

Heather Flanagan — Thu, 26 Feb 2009 17:16:30 GMT

Hi everyone, I wanted to share with you some of my experiences in the hopes that it can help you with whatever issues that you have. I had lived in much misery and despair in dealing with many different issues (including being deeply in debt) for over 20 years, but I am now very much in the healing process!! My life is SO much better already, and I've only been at this since the beginning of the year and I know that I am going to keep getting better! The Law of Attraction and EFT have largely contributed to my success! It would take too long to explain about this process, but I have written all about it on my website if you'd like to take a look there. www.myquestforhealing.com I hope that this will be beneficial!Heather

How I am getting over my Anxiety and many other issues!

Heather Flanagan — Thu, 26 Feb 2009 17:12:38 GMT

Hi everyone, I wanted to share with you some of my experiences in the hopes that it can help you with whatever issues that you have. I had lived in much misery and despair in dealing with many different issues for over 20 years, but I am now very much in the healing process!! My life is SO much better already, and I've only been at this since the beginning of the year and I know that I am going to keep getting better! EFT has largely contributed to my success! It would take too long to explain about this process, but I have written all about it on my website if you'd like to take a look there. I hope that this will be beneficial!

Heather