Search results matching tag 'law of attraction'

Re: Getting up the emotional scale to wealth...

Ingrid — Mon, 02 Nov 2009 03:01:39 GMT

Hi Guys,

great discussion! Thanks for sharing all your insights!

I would like to add that many points on the emotional scale are actually not emotional but beliefs (Powerlessness, unworthyness,...)

I believe that emotions, beliefs and physical issues are just different vibrations of the same energy block, and it often makes sense to include all those aspects into the tapping sequence.

Therefore I emphazise with my clients the importants of being emotionally and cognitively, and physically, if possibly, specific to speed up the process:

Even though I am frustrated that I feel so powerless, and I feel this knot in my stomach

Even though it scares me that I am so full of fear

Even though I am sad that I feel so discouraged

Even though I am overwhelmed that I feel so unworthy...

By adding more specific feelings and physical sensations into the setup, we turbo charge it, make it very personal and easy to relate to, which often speeds up the healing process. It also allows my clients to feel understood and accepted with the complexity of their feelings and their current place in life.

Love

Ingrid

Re: Getting up the emotional scale to wealth...

successfuleft — Mon, 26 Oct 2009 16:25:12 GMT

Hi Mitch,

Thanks for sharing this. Like a number of other EFT practitioners (Carol Look, Chip Engelmann, Sejual Shah, Lynne Shaner come to mind), I combine EFT and attraction principles in my work with clients. I find it's a fantastic combination to allow people to attract money and success.

Here's a couple of points I'd make:

1) In your post, you say, "This stuff really is difficult in practice". I encourage you to explore this belief and tap on it. In my experience, it doesn't have to be difficult.

2) Recall that attraction principles teach, like in the work of Ester & Jerry Hicks, it is our consistent feelings and beliefs that make up our experience.

3) It's next to impossible to go in one leap from very low levels on the Emotional Scale to consistently feeling very high vibrations over time.

4) Practitioner Sejual Shah and I call the "work your way up one step at a time" approach The Incremental Approach to Abundance. It's very effective for our clients.

5) I suggest to my clients to print out the Emotional Scale and put it up somewhere visible like your fridge, desk or bathroom mirror. It helps you become more mindful about what your current money emotions are. You can get a copy by clicking here.

6) Like all EFT success, using EFT successfully for abundance requires our ability to find and clear core issues. Here is an article called the EFT for Abundance: The 3 Best Ways to Find Your Blocks.

Hope this is helpful.

With much love,

Paul

Re: Why isn't everyone rich?

successfuleft — Wed, 09 Sep 2009 14:43:43 GMT

Claire,

Thanks for sharing your thoughts. One thing I've noticed that happens around the subject of being rich is that it's a charged subject for most people. These intense emotions get in the way of having a clear and centered relationship to creating what we want. I agree that everyone gets to define "rich" for her/himself. At same time, I think it's important to define from a clear intention of knowing what you want instead of reacting from a place of strong emotions. That's where EFT comes in - clear the negative charge and it gets a whole lot easier to create your own rich life.

Blessings,

Paul

Re: Confusion from a Newbie!

successfuleft — Wed, 09 Sep 2009 04:29:22 GMT

Van,

So glad to hear that you're feeling calmer about your approach. Doing a happy calm dance for you ..

Suzanne also has a great point - once you calm your energy, start to explore specific issues that are in way of your abundance goals. If you're not sure what they are, I have a tool I developed to help you find them. It's called Money Matrix and you can read more about it here: http://paulzelizer.com/intro-to-money-matrix/

If you need help figuring out how to apply EFT to the issues that surface in this exercise, feel free to send me a message.

Blessings,

Paul

Re: Help with Gagging when Tapping on Abundance

successfuleft — Wed, 19 Aug 2009 22:22:29 GMT

Thanks for reaching out to the forums.

One of the most common mistakes people make when first using EFT for Abundance is to try and make too big a jump too fast. To me, it sounds like your system can't swallow the "millions and millions of dollars". From the sounds of it, it's to big a jump from where you are. I see this often with clients as do many of colleagues.

EFT practitioner Sejual Shah and I wrote an article called the Incremental Approach to Abundance with EFT and the Law of Attraction. It's available at: http://paulzelizer.com/eft-and-loa-for-abundance-the-incremental-approach/

In general, slow down and take smaller bites is my suggestion.

Blessings,

Paul

Re: OK, I'm sure this has been asked before...

Pamela Bruner — Mon, 13 Jul 2009 18:34:38 GMT

Hi,

I agree with many of the responses that have been made, especially working with the tail-enders and making up a memory to tap on something when there doesn't seem to be a 'real' event. Great ideas!

Another thing that you might look at is your Choices statement. You didn't tell us what you're trying to create with your Choices statement, just that it would be physical or situational. I'm going to make some guesses here, and see if they apply for you.

Originally, before I found EFT I worked with people largely on affirmations, and the wording of the affirmations is pretty darn important. For example, saying 'I choose to manifest a brand-new car' is one possible choice. What I would ask though, is 1) How does having that car, or the idea of having that car, make you feel? 2) What do you really need? Is it perfect transportation? Perhaps there is a way to tweak your Choices statement to have it be more powerful, and less literal. Some other choices might be 'I choose to know that all my transportation needs are taken care of' or 'I choose to know I always have the perfect transportation'. This second one has in it an element of acceptance of the current situation, and as we know from the study of the Law of Attraction, you have to start with acceptance - what you resist, persists. It could be that, in the way that you create the Setup statement, you're actually maintaining the current condition.

I'm happy to give more specifics if you'd like to share more about your Choices.

I hope this helps!

Warmly,

Pamela Bruner

EFT and Law of Attraction are the perfect match

gainback — Wed, 08 Jul 2009 03:23:57 GMT

Eventually people will come to understand that EFT and the Law of Attraction are a perfect match.

We understand that the Law of Attraction says that which is like unto itself is drawn, which basically means your get what you think and feel about. But when the issues keep on holding you back from achieving what you want in life then EFT is the perfect tool to help you over come it.

Those of us you teach LOA understand that everything starts in the mind, everything starts in thought, which means everything has an emotion. And since the cause of all negative emotion is a block in the bodies energy system. EFT is the obvious tool to fix it.

The reason why people don't think LOA and EFT don't work is because they don't pay attention to those subtle movements that happen when they are not looking. But LOA and EFT work even if you don't think they do, the LOA is always bringing you evidence in all things.

You see evidence of LOA when you talk about being broke ... and you are.

You see evidence of LOA when you talk about how sick you are...and you are

LOA and EFT are a perfect, one helps you identify it, and the other gets rid of it

Gillian Tarawhiti - Personal Development Specialist

http://www.gainbackyourlife-eft.com

Re: What do you think happened?

successfuleft — Sat, 06 Jun 2009 13:23:51 GMT

Hi RBrown,

I can sense your frustration and confusion. Thanks for reaching out.

As a practitioner who specializes in using EFT for Abundance, I work with many people each week on this topic. Your story is not an uncommon one. When it comes to abundance, it takes a bit more skill to use EFT successfully. It's not like a headache where if it's gonna work, you can tell immediately. One of the biggest mistakes I see people make when using EFT for Abundance is not following the EFT success guideline of "Be Specific". People tend to tap on things like wanting more money, wanting to win the lottery and the like.

The first step I recommend is to get a very clear picture of your current energetic relationship with money. To help people do this, I offer a free worksheet and video at http://www.moneymake2.com/images/Healing_Your_Money_Matrix.pdf

Once you know what your current energy blocks with money are, then you tap on them. For instance, one client saw a big pile of money on the other side of a 3" plate glass wall that was just past her nose. When we explored what the plate glass wall was about, it represented a host of limiting beliefs she got from her parents. We tapped on each of these aspects and her business started to steadily increase by about 10% a month. And, she's enjoying her work MUCH more.

The other mistake I see people make is trying to take steps that are to big for them. For instance, a client who was earning about $30,000 a year set the goal of becoming a billionaire. Energetically what happened is that she couldn't feel the pathway from where she was to being a billionaire and she got discouraged. But, she kept pushing herself anyway. When we started working together, we came up with more incremental goals. Her first step was to increase her income to $45,000 and she is on track to do that this year. A 50% increase in one year is something to celebrate and more than pays for the work we do together.

Hope this helps,

Paul

Re: Question for Law of Attraction experts

successfuleft — Fri, 22 May 2009 18:50:20 GMT

Hi all,

I am a big believer in the EFT saying of "BE SPECIFIC" when looking for progress with abundance issues. So I'd like to share about a session I just finished. The client had what she called an "anger shield" in front of her heart. It prevented her business from growing. We explored what the core issues were underneath the anger shield. We determined that the anger shield was a result of several severe incidents of violence from her father. She felt the shield "kept me alive". Energetically, it had served a very important issue.

So, we tapped on the shield, the intense feelings about the incidents and the way the shield blocked genuine connections in her business. We even thanked the shield and the feelings connected with it for the ways it had served her. After we cleared this intensity, she came up with a more positive image. It was a "flesh colored back support band". Rather than cutting her off from clients, the back band felt like it helped her support her clients. We used Tapping in the Positive to strengthen this new energy pattern. When asked to describe how the new energy pattern feels, she said, "I feel like a buddha on the inside. Light, peaceful and very alive."

RESULTS: After 2 sessions, she's attracted a major new client and increased prospects by 15%. And, she has had 3 seperate friends offer to help her with increasing her marketing. One of these friends is a professional marketer with 20 years experience. Client reports that new ideas for marketing her business are flowing and she has a level of confidence that "I've never had before."

I believe that finding and clearing the core issues is key step that many who are struggling with LOA miss.

Hope this helps,

Paul

Re: New into EFT

successfuleft — Fri, 01 May 2009 20:24:26 GMT

Hey Theuns,

Welcome to the EFT community. The process and wording you are describing is correct if you are using "Mechanical EFT". The problem is that neither I nor any reputable EFT coach I know has seen mechanical EFT lead to success with abundance issues. Instead, successfully increasing our income with EFT usually has two parts: 1) finding the limiting beliefs (EFT calls these tail-enders) that are getting in the way of making more money and 2) implementing a clear strategy for attraction more money in our lives.

The process of doing this involves what EFT founder Gary Craig calls "intuitive EFT". I have a whole site with lots of free resources dedicated to learning how to do this. There are others on this forum who do as well such as Practitioner Chip Englemann. Chip has a very extensive free ebook called th Born Loser's Guide to Abundance. His site is www.ChipEFT.com

Good luck on your abundance journey.

With much love,

Paul