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OPENING THE CLOWN CHAKRA ~ by Tom Marusso a fellow EFTer

Sylvia S Ross — Sat, 06 Sep 2008 02:49:14 GMT

Hi!

I just wanted to share this written by a friend. It made me smile, I would just add one change or addition where it states "if you think someone is attacking you, or your self-talk is". As carers & care-givers our lives can get extremely serious & heavy. Check out Laughter Yoga!

Blessings,

Sylvia

Opening The Clown Chakra

Reprinted with Permission

Recently, scientists have found that all our problems can
be placed under one heading: Seriousness.

Seriousness is the leading cause of disharmony.

Scientists from the Clown Academy have already discovered a
new source of healing.

It is a psychic energy point located between the Heart
Energy Center (Chakra) and the Throat Energy Center (Chakra).

It is called the "Clown Chakra."

If people are feeling miserable; if they have financial
problems; if their relationships are in the pits; if they are
in ill health; if they have a need to sue people; if they find
fault with another; then their Clown Chakra is imbalanced.

When this happens, scientists have observed under high-powered
microscopes that the cells of every organ display a sad face;
and when the Clown Chakra is open and functioning normally,
the cells display a happy face.

Who knew!

If a person is ill, it is because the mind has projected
guilt or shame onto the cells of the body and has forced out
the love that is normally found within the body.

The cells are therefore saying, "I Lack Love", or "ILL" for
short.

Scientists also recently discovered that all disease is due
to the fact that the cells are "out of ease" or "dis-eased."

When the Clown Chakra is opened and "playing" properly, the
psychic mechanism sucks up misery, pain, anger, resentment,
all grievances, unhappiness and so on, and then converts this
negative and imbalanced energy into tiny red heart-shaped
balloons.

The Red Heart Balloons contain God's Love and Joy. These
balloons are directed to the "dis-eased" cell or situation,
and a happy face instantly appears.

When the light enters the darkness, the darkness is gone.

Sometimes these Red Heart Balloons, called endorphins, are
due to the fact that when anyone experiences them the feeling
of separation ends - they experience being back home with the
divine and hence are no longer an orphan.

This is the well known "end orphan" (endorphin) effect.

So if you think someone is attacking you, it is recommended
that you visualize sending that person Red Heart Shaped Balloons
filled with God's Love and Joy.

Remember to keep your Clown Chakra open, you must remember
to laugh - seriousness also causes reincarnation!

And you thought all this spirituality stuff wasn't supposed
to be fun! (c)2008
-Tom
p.s. Look for my new book this summer: "The Manuscript -
Awakening into Oneness."
BornToManifest.com

Thomas Michael Murasso Ent.
4140 Clemmons Rd #218
Clemmons NC 27012
United States

Re: The Caregiver's Manual

Sangeeta — Sat, 12 Apr 2008 06:33:29 GMT

Hello Soobie,

I empathize with your post, as I have been through similar phases myself. I know how much effort it takes to keep working on yourself, so I applaud your strength and persistence. Sylvia and Marie's posts are so warm, useful and supportive, that I am sure not only you, but the many others who read this thread are encouraged to continue working on their challenges.

Your statement " I was responsible for becoming depressed because I was always looking at the bright side and I suppressed my negative feelings." caught my attention.

Caregivers frequently lack the strength, energy and time to allow themselves the liberty of fully experiencing and venting their own emotions. Perhaps the following set up statements would be helpful:

"Even though I have been suppressing all my negative feelings, I give myself permission to acknowledge my sadness now"

"Even though I have been too scared to accept the depth of my sadness and fears, I am safe and can cope now"

"Even though I have been pretending to be happy, it is safe to relax and permit myself real happiness."

The Choices Method may be most suitable for the above, that is 3 short-cut rounds for each set up, the first using a negative reminder phrase, the second the positive reminder phrase and the last using alternate negative and positive reminder phrases.

Baerbel Froehlin's article- "Love that about myself" in the latest newsletter is also likely to help.

I know it must look like a huge forest from your perspective, but please keep going "one tree at a time"!

Best Wishes,

Sangeeta

Re: The Caregiver's Manual

Sangeeta — Mon, 07 Apr 2008 12:57:09 GMT

Thank Jasmine,

As I wrote before, I welcome any links to my e-books.

Warm Regards,

Sangeeta

Re: The Caregiver's Manual

Sangeeta — Mon, 07 Apr 2008 12:54:22 GMT

Hello Soobie,

I do hope that my manual gives you some help.

In addition to Sylvia's very useful suggestions, here are a few more:

1. Even if the anxiety seems to go up, please keep tapping. A few more quick rounds usually start having a calming effect, even after an initial upswng in anxiety.

2. I would suggest tapping using "Even though I may have difficulty in believing that something as simple as EFT can actually make a significant improvement in my life, I choose to give EFT a fair chance anyway." After 20 years of your situation, whether consciously or unconsciously, it may be hard to believe that EFT can help in "this particular situation".

3. There are a lot of good suggestions on how to address issues without "going there" in this thread.

4. Though we are supposed to stay focused on EFT in these forums, TAT is demonstrated in the videos, so I hope it is ok to include a little bit on it. I would highly recommend a TAT using something along the lines of:

Step 1 : "Everthing that contributed to my ongoing overwhelmed and grieving state happened"

Step 2 : "All this happened, but it's over now. I am ok and can relax now"

In my experience, TAT and EFT are very complementary and work beautifully together. TAT takes away a lot of the "impact" and EFT clears away remaining, associated or new issues that emerge. This combination is particularly useful in cases involving a specific incident(the accident) and/or grief.

As Sylvia said, do give us feedback. I am sure you will receive a lot of support and suggestions from this caring forum.

Sincere Best Wishes!

Sangeeta

Re: Exclusion from Society

Sylvia S Ross — Wed, 27 Feb 2008 22:48:53 GMT

Hi Gilly!

In reference to your husband. Where is his cancer located? If you join EFT-Cancer-Support-Study-Group-submit@YahooGroups you will receive free downloads that maybe helpful. I have a Cancer Survey of Possible Emotional Problems that can induce cancer, according to research, available on my site. Cancer Survey. Originally, posted for research, it is also a guide for discovery & EFT work. In submiting form, there is a free EFT-Guideline & help for de-stressing the Cancer Diagnosis.

I work closely with both Louise Hay and Dr. Lincoln's emotional issues being the bottom line of all illnesses. Dr. Lincoln's insights are very specific and although they seem harsh if you don't have the problem, if you do have the problem, they are uncanny to internal feelings. Both, list for Emphysema - Fear of taking in life & not worthy of living. Dr. Lincoln has a further list, too personal to list here, but, because I do not have a formal report available, if you e-mail me off Forum, I will send them to you! There are over 85 reports available at my site. (If these links do not work my web address is www.naturalforcesforhealth.com and you can make the connections from there.) The reports include EFT Chart, insights and workpages to process insights - with PR Statements and room to explore all aspects that emerge.

Although, there is a formal report for Chemotherapy Reaction which covers a lot of territory and probably influences his sense of wellbeing and helplessness feeling which he brings home to you by being down and demanding, even without those, I can see the appointment as being a downer.

1. Is having no-control "Even though I feel I have no control over taking this chemo, in reality I did, it was my choice and I choose to do it well and spend my "chemo-time" being grateful for it's healing work and vision all the c-cells it is destroying!"

"Even though, I am worried about the associated damage and side-effects, that the chemo might create, I choose to release my fear and not have any of those problems!?

EFTing the chemo specifically the name has also been helpful. Just write name down on a piece of paper have him hold it in his hand, and process. Any and all side-effects can also be tapped. There is some great articles in the archives.

That's a start!

Hugs,

Sylvia

Re: Exclusion from Society

Sylvia S Ross — Wed, 27 Feb 2008 03:33:46 GMT

To Connie & Gill,

Here is an exercise from Dr. Carol Look, it is taken from her Abundance Series which is posted in the archives. I have found it to be very effective and recommend it, highly. Try it, when, you feel exhausted.

Gill, I recommend this to my EFT-Cancer-Support-Study-Group@YahooGroups.com also, so, you might engage your husband also.

EFT-CSG – DR.CAROL LOOK EXCERPT FROM ABUNDANCE SERIES Even though I feel exhausted and tired all the time, I deeply and completely love and accept myself…...Even though I have no energy, I deeply and completely love and accept who I am right now……...Even though I am tired and exhausted and feel like giving up, I choose to recognize the abundance in my life!Eyebrow: I feel so tired and exhausted.Side of Eye: I have no energy and I want to give up.Under Eye: I’m sick and tired of being sick and tired.Under Nose: I wonder what emotions are making me so exhausted?Chin: I feel so tired I could cry.Collarbone: I’m tired of being tired.Under Arm: I am completely out of energy.Top of Head: I am exhausted and tired all the time.SECOND ROUND:Eyebrow: Thank you Universe for my incredibly strong body.Side of Eye: Thank You Universe for the stamina of my body.Under Eye: Thank you Universe for my vibrant health.Under Nose: Thank You Universe for allowing me to rely on my body.Chin: Thank You, Universe for all the times my body has supported me.Collarbone: Thank You, Universe, for strength and stamina in my body.Under Arm: Thank You, Universe for my overall good health.Top of Head: Thank You, Universe for all the intelligence of my body.Eyebrow: Thank you, Universe for all the energy that I DO have.Side of Eye: Thank You, Universe for the overflowing abundance in my life.Under Eye: Thank you, Universe for my incredible strength and health.Under Nose: Thank You, Universe for such a loving weekend with my family.Chin: Thank You, Universe for such a pleasurable work schedule.Collarbone: Thank You, Universe, for all the many blessings I have.Under Arm: Thank You, Universe for such a peaceful night’s sleep.Top of Head: Thank You, Universe for those sharp insights that helped me in my work today.

Bless you both!

Sylvia

Sylvia S Ross EFT-ADV

Co-Moderator

Re: Exclusion from Society

Sylvia S Ross — Fri, 22 Feb 2008 20:34:32 GMT

Hi Connie!

Thank you for sharing Mattie with us, and your concerns.

Maria (Co-Moderator of CarerForum) recommends tapping on picture of person, you are surrogating for, & I feel this would be idea in Mattie's case, of which then you can treat just like you would if you were tapping on him and address as, "Even though, you are having this breathing problem, you are a cool son/kid, and I/we completely love, accept & forgive myself/ourselves and anyone else involved and choose to breath easy!" In saying "We" you are tapping for both of you! There are a couple of reasons, one you can do it anytime & two- there were some cautions originally about tapping on people who had a history of seizures, his tendency not to like it might be a natural reaction. I have never liked tapping the top of my head, turns out it isn't recommended for people who have high blood pressure.

Wonderful kind loving tapping on his picture, solves any of the problems, you have addressed. It could even be used to address your concerns about whether you are handling this in the best way and assuring him of everyones love & understanding and all the feelings in your heart, that he is safe & will always be loved & safe in the future, no matter the path.

Have you heard of the TappyBear? As you teach Mattie the new system, maybe you will be able to teach him how to Tap the Bear for his own feelings. Many adults use it including Dr. Carrington, so, this isn't a recommendation just because he is a "LittlePeople"

I found this site in my research, if you are not aware of, it might be helpful! http://www.lpaonline.org/mc/page.do?sitePageId=37298&orgId=lpa It reminds me of a group for Down's Syndrome Families, that my oldest step-son and his family belong to in the Chicago area. The synergy of support, sharing, & love is just outstanding.

Mat's pain can be addressed with EFT, again, using the method,above with his picture. Tap for pain in general, and then maybe, pick a specific joint and tap for the pain and fusion in the joint, being specific, rubbing your hand over the joint with intention. If you can free him of pain, he possibly will move freer, which then will loosen up his joints. If you need help with PR Statements just ask, OK?

Connie, I have a hearing impairment, and recently received information on BAHA Direct Bone Conduction Implant, I am not sure if I am suitable or Mat, but here is the online connection www.Cochlear.com, they will send you information which included a DVD. It is minor surgery and usually done with a local anethesia. There is even a way to test, before it is done to see if the BAHA makes a viable difference. It has been very successful for people who are even born with atesia. I had lunch with a lady yesterday, who had an implant after having a tumor removed. She demonstrated to me how the attachment picked up the sound vibrations and I could feel them in my fingers holding it. If Mat can hear/feel music vibrations, maybe, it might be a miracle solution step. Syncronicity at work in our lives? The fact, I had lunch, had that feel and when I got home, I had your e-mail? The Implant is a titanium fixture that is placed in the skull bone behind the ear.

A PR Statement just for you, "Even though, my subconcious seems to be telling me in my dreams, I may not be handling this the best way, I completely love, accept and forgive myself." Even though, and particularily if I am not, I am not sure what the best way is, or how I will get the strength to do what ever it is, I should do, I completely love, accept and forgive myself and choose to take this one step at a time, and have faith, I will be given not only the answers but also the strength to impliment them!"

Hugs and blessings,

Sylvia

Co-Moderator Carer/Caregivers

Re: The Caregiver's Manual

Sylvia S Ross — Wed, 13 Feb 2008 14:04:51 GMT

Sangeeta,

Thank you so much for sharing, For anyone who receives their Forum messages in their e-mail, here is the connection

http://www.soulspeakindia.com/index.php?pr=Downloads

Both, the Caregiver's Manual and the Patient's Manual are excellent, well thought out, and cover a wealth of detail. Please, everyone take the time to read and save them to your files.

As, I read the Caregiver Manual, there are so many instances EFT is applicable to the scenerio, maybe, if you added PR Statements, Sangeeta, Gary would post in his newsletter and archives.

I would like your permission to post to EFT-Cancer-Support-Study-Group@YahooGroups.com in my files and to forward the information to participants who submit a Cancer Survey. Thank you again for sharing this wealth of knowledge from your experience.

Blessings,

Sylvia

Sylvia S Ross EFT-ADV

Co-Moderator ~ Carer/Caregiving Forum

www.naturalforcesforhealth.com

The Caregiver's Manual

Sangeeta — Mon, 11 Feb 2008 08:39:45 GMT

Hello everyone,

Based on my many years experience as a caregiver, I have written two books for chronic disease management - "It's Your Life - A Practical Handbook for Chronic Ailments" and "The Caregiver's Manual". These are freely available at my website - www.soulspeakindia.com . While these books were written before I started practising EFT, the highlighted topics may provide good guidance for issues that the patient and caregiver would need tapping on.

Frequently, both are exhausted. Daily tapping, on a few of the issues listed in these books, could be done without taking too much trouble in identifying the problems.

I would be happy to help anyone with framing their setups, if so required.

I notice that while there are frequently a large number of viewers on the forums and subscribers to the EFT newsletter, a relatively less number of people appear to post on these boards. I would like to urge anyone reading this to actively participate and avail of the great support that is available in these forums. You can retain your anonymity and yet find people who are or have been in similar situations. Such interaction may provide invaluable guidance that can bring about a significant improvement in your wellbeing.

Best Wishes,

Sangeeta