Done.  I hadn't noticed that.  Thank you.

O hey now.  I just went augmentation shopping and found they are really doing a nice job these days....NICE.  Thanks.  If I can get away from hubby and save my pennies, I guess I probably will do this.  He would never allow me to spend his money, and I don't make very much on my own...hmm.  Well where there is a will, ...

Prodigious Flames...you make me laugh and that is always a good thing.  Actually I have always specified natural when affirming and visualising boobs.  I have had botched surgeries in other areas, not necessarily plastic, and I do find I have great mistrust for medical types.  They have habitually made my life worse....pills, ...

I am pretty sure the practitioners I saw are all qualified.  I may have learned eft on you tube, but I paid a lot for expertise on and off throught the years. You guys make more in one hour than I do in a day.  I thought it was worth it, repeatedly, if I got over fear, made myself financially independent, and/or ...

I have tapped extensively on my childhood...I am tired of it.  It just makes things worse.   I used to love my parents and many of my childhood memories.  Now I have mostly terrible memorites, tapped into reality, and some not even true.  Its just that when you tap, you are basically drumming suggestions into your head and ...

Actually I was kinda too good.  Mom didn't want me showing up my older sis so I wasn't allowed to be as smart and pretty as I am .  Dad doesn't like spoilt smart kids either though he is quite brilliant himself, and knows I was reasonably academic, like  straight A and advanced with little effort back in the old ...

if you feel happy with yourself it doesn't matter what anyone else thinks   Exactly.  I am the one who is unhappy.  I am glad you are happy with yourself, but I don't even want to be happy with AAAs.  I want to be happy with As or Bs or even Cs.  I don't want to settle for anything less than my best.  ...

I have got to say...if you are fat or if you are not...don't waste your time on Shape Shifting, the book.  The woman who wrote it has more hang ups than any fat person I have ever met, and the book is full of blame and shame, follwed by hypocritical references to make up and good clothes and even susperstitious rituals to make you feel ...

PS.  The Script for Body Image  under the Weight Forum is the discussion to which I was referring.  I offer it because I have a slightly different perspective, and I have found the usual preachy inner beauty attitude just doesn't work for me.

I think one of the things that is very overlooked on self helpy type forums and books is that our interaction with others helps define who we are.  Psych studies have shown repeatedly that more doors are opened for pretty people.  I have read books on the history of beauty.  It is a very important part of the human experience.  ...