Hi Elisabeth!
Congratulations on your weight loss success to date!
It can be very confusing thinking we've finally found the weight loss cure with EFT or a great new diet and then be STOPPED dead in our tracks!
Many times, I have found with clients and even with myself... a weight loss plateau is caused by a subconscious decision that it is not safe or desirable to go below a specific weight.
It may sound strange to stop ourselves from getting what we want however, there is unconscious primitive part that may think it is not good to go below a particular amount or weight set point. This is our primitive 'survival self' taking over when it perceives a safety or protection issue.
After asking some probing questions, I've heard many things from clients. Here are some examples;
- "If I lose more weight then I'll be attractive to men and relationships scare me!"
- "If I continue losing weight I'll need to struggle to keep if off... because I always gain it back!"
- "If I lose more... I will be better than my sister, mother etc and that is not a good thing!"
- "If I lose more weight my husband will feel I am too self empowered and he'll get upset"
- "If I lose more and gain energy, I'll be expected to do more, work harder, be more responsible."
We all have our own underlying reasons for getting stuck. To help you discover what might be holding you back, try this.
Close your eyes and picture or feel yourself 20 lbs lighter or even just 10 lbs. Notice any tension or anxiety in your body even the slightest amount. If you get an uncomfortable feeling or body sensation, then it is likely you are dealing with a subconscious counter belief.
You can continue to tap on this tension or anxiety and see what comes up OR do some probing. Ask yourself... "What is the downside of losing more weight... What's the upside of staying this fat... Why might I feel unsafe or threatened at a lower weight?"
Let me know how it goes.
Good luck with your detective work! Karen
Karen Nauman C.Ht., P.Nlp
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