EFT General Discussion

Re: Male and Female

vernpeace — Fri, 03 Jul 2009 19:26:55 GMT

"I apologise in advance toVern as I am sure he will not appreciate this)"...

Mildred, surely...you...know...by...now...

how...much...i...appreciate...you...my...dear...its

...just...assumptions...vern...dont...do...

peace&love...

Re: Male and Female

Mildred — Fri, 03 Jul 2009 15:30:21 GMT

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(Dear Forum,

I am experimenting with trying to make sense of Vern's posts so here goes. I apologise in advance toVern as I am sure he will not appreciate this)

Hi Rachel,

The temptation to put people
into neat little boxes is very
strong. Some how we think it will
make things easier. However this
is rarely the case. I have indeed
found the opposite to be true
I used to wonder why folks, when
they start using EFT, it works great
and then less and less so. This
was very puzzling to say the least.
it seems the more we need to understand
about EFT the less it seems to work.
The simple reason is too much BETA -
brainwave activity. So I suggest that we all just tap, tap, tap
and let the other person give us the
theme while we disperse its energy
without adding to it.

Peace &Love, Vern

p.s. Just do it!..(EFT, that is)

Re: Male and Female

vernpeace — Fri, 03 Jul 2009 11:13:10 GMT

hi Rachel, the...temptation...to...put...people...
into...neat...little...boxes...is...very...
strong...some...how...we...think...it...will
...make...things...easier...however...this...
is...rarely...the...case...vern...has...indeed
...found...the...opposite...to...be...true...
i...used...to...wonder...why...folks...when...
they...start...using...EFT...it...works...great
...and...then...less...and...less...so...this...
was...very...puzzling...to...say...the...least...
it...seems...the...more...we...need...to...understand
...about...EFT...the...less...it...seems...to...work
...the...simple...reason...is...to...much...BETA...
brainwave...activity...so...just...tap, tap, tap...
and...let...the...other...person...give...you...the
...theme...and...disperse...its...energy...please...
dont...
add...to...it!

peace&love...vern

p.s...just...do...it!..(EFT, that is)

Re: Male and Female

DeborahDonndelinger — Fri, 03 Jul 2009 01:04:00 GMT

Rachel, Could be the client base you are attracting -- each of us has a fractal that we draw to us with its own unique set of energy and patterns. The clients I attract seem to have a pattern of: my female clients are reclaiming their inner authority and power, my male clients are stepping into their unique authority but seeing the love in that power so realizing their vulnerabilities and power at the same time. So yes, there are themes but not not the ones you name. And that's perfect - we all have folks we are here to serve. How is it working for you to realize the themes you name? Hugs, Deborah

Male and Female

Rachel G. — Thu, 02 Jul 2009 22:11:26 GMT

This is a question for people who've facilitated EFT for other people besides using it directly on only themselves. Do you find that there is a difference between working with men and with women? Any themes regularly come up? Do the men need a bigger focus on personal power and the women on safety, or is this my imagination?

Thanks!

Rachel