Abundance General Discussion

Looking for financial independency: My inner child has confused gifts with love

UHU — Wed, 18 Nov 2009 17:13:30 GMT

Hello,

I am going through a very painful breakup. While very actively working on myself I feel stuck not wanting to go back to work and resume my normal daily life. It is even more difficult that I work at home so I do not have any peer pressure to get me going.

I have felt a bit concerned about this and decided to tap. I have discovered recently that I suffer from co-dependency and love addiction. I felt that my inability to resume work as before was not just depression caused by the break-up though so I tapped on

Even though, I don't know why I am having such a hard time getting back to work, I completely love and accept myself....

Very quickly I understood that as a little child the best moments I had with my parents was when I received gifts. I was very excited. I often exactly the gift I had expected. My parents put a lot of love and care in choosing presents for me and Christmas was always a night with no fights where at last I was the center of the attention.

Otherwise, my parents would scream and insult each other. They even got into fights while my mother was calling me to witness the scene. They were asking me to make up for their unhappy childhood and meet all of their different expectations which were more often than not totally incompatible and I just could not measure up. I felt really neglected, abandoned, more like a thing than a human being and very deprived of love and acknowledgement of who I was.

As a young adult I often put myself in situations where I would become financially dependant over and over. I too had very unrealistic expectations of myself, was a perfectionist and had delusions of grandeur without wanting to take the necessary steps. I was trying to prove to my parent my self worth by trying to achieve something impossible and always failed miserably. I guess it had the double hidden benefit of keeping my financially dependent and ridden in low self-esteem

I am really fed up with that situation that repeats itself over and over so I learnt EFT and started therapy to deal with that very subject. I had become partially financially dependent on my boyfriend as well and felt that I had an invisible maximum wage written down somewhere in my soul that said minimum wage accepted is just above the threshold of misery. My couple suffered from that a great deal when I was working more and more hours just to get the same amount of money at the end of the month. I accepted to be abused by my clients who asked for to many things they had not paid for....

Now I understand that my inner child confused Christmas, receiving gifts/money with being loved and being safe. My parents never screamed at me when they offered me gifts. I felt safe. It seems I want my inner child wants to go back to the safe and loving place of being taken care of. My adult self does not. It wants to be able to have enough wealth to make her own Christmas….

I really want to shift that belief (money/gifts= safety and love) so that I can achieve the wealth that is just dying to enter my life.

Please let me know if you have any insights on how to handle this.

Lots of love

Why isn't everyone rich?

cweb5509 — Fri, 28 Aug 2009 23:00:14 GMT

Hello,

I was just curious about something, if EFT works so well why isn't everyone living the life of their dreams? I get you have to let go of your limiting beliefs and then install new beliefs to attract what you want. So I'm assuming the catch is you have to bring up memories and emotions that are uncomfortable and work your way through them (which isn't fun). Another thing is I'm guessing that it's time consuming and requires a lot of your attention, therefore making your abundance take longer to aquire. I haven't really been able to get EFT to work for me, so I wouldn't know exactley what the cause is.

Anyway look forward to your responses

Christa

Where to live - House or a Flat

wilkies0106aw — Fri, 25 Sep 2009 05:20:52 GMT

All,

It is Friday so I thought I'd post this, something lighter or not.

I'm wanting to move house.

I'm pretty much certain (location) as to where I want to move to. Although note element of doubt in my language. Even deciding where I want to live has taken me time. At least I know where I didn't want to live.

One, (presupposes more - urgh) conflict I have is house or flat? Certainly for this move.

I affectionly talk about my flat as the 'Towers'. I even know how I want it to look, what is in it, layout etc.

Yet, when speaking about moving and living somewhere else. I'll often use the word house, as if I'm meant to move into a house and not a flat. To me a house and a flat are very different. What is not, is that either or both will be my HOME.

Ideas?

Thanks

A

Book sales

Samstar — Mon, 28 Sep 2009 08:37:09 GMT

I think this is the right forum to post this on... I have written and self published my first book.. it took me several years to research and write and now it is finally finished.. I have been invited to give a few talks at local places and I have followed up on those leads..the talks were a success and I have been invited to give more..however, the problem is that I haven't sold many books. This book is the first of 3 and without a successful first book the other 2 wont be published so I need to recoup my outlay and of course I would also like lots of people to read it because I think it is a worthwhile read..

One of the problems is that I don't want to appear pushy - I want people to 'want' to buy the book and not force them into it.. but I think that leaves my approach too passive.. has anyone successfully used EFT to sell something or clear blocks to selling? And if so - how can I identify the blocks..?

Thanks

Getting up the emotional scale to wealth...

MitchM78 — Mon, 26 Oct 2009 14:14:06 GMT

Hi Everyone,

I have been reading/watching/listening to Books,DVD's,CD's, made by Jerry and Esther Hicks which is all about the teachings of Abraham (A non-pysical group of spritual beings that Esther channels) and from what I can gather If you work you way up the emtional scale to feelings of Joy/Appreciation/Empowerment/Freedom/Love then you get in alighnment with your amassed fortune that your higher self/source/God (whatever you want to call it) has become,then by the 'Law Of Attraction' those things must come into your experience. (so long as you stay in the good feeling for a period of time)

Haha this stuff really is difficult in practice but by using self hypnosis I'm getting better at it,but I'm sure E.F.T will get me there quicker.

My question is how would you word rounds of E.F.T to work your way up?

Something like; "Even though I'm at a feeling of boredom and would really like to be feeling contentment I deeply..." ?

The thing that Abraham says is you cannot go from feelings of Fear/Grief/Depression/Despair/Powerlessness all the way up to Joy/Appreciation/Empowered/Freedom/Love ...you got to work your way up one step at a time.

Below is the emtional scale, I hope someone has some idea's on how to make this work using E.F.T.

Thanks,

Mitch

1.	Joy/Appreciation/Empowered/Freedom/Love
2.	Passion
3.	Enthusiasm/Eagerness/Happiness
4.	Positive Expectation/Belief
5.	Optimism
6.	Hopefulness
7.	Contentment
8.	Boredom
9.	Pessimism
10.	Frustration/Irritation/Impatience
11.	Overwhelment
12.	Disappointment
13.	Doubt
14.	Worry
15.	Blame
16.	Discouragement
17.	Anger
18.	Revenge
19.	Hatred/Rage
20.	Jealousy
21.	Insecurity/Guilt/Unworthiness
22.	Fear/Grief/Depression/Despair/Powerlessness

What about just winning all the money you need in the lottery?

EFT is amazing — Sun, 14 Sep 2008 19:41:37 GMT

Hi everyone,

I've been working with EFT for a few months and stumbled on it while working with 'The Secret.' One of the things that is mentioned is to set your goals and see/feel them as if you have already obtained it. Well, I chose to win 100 million in the lottery. For me this is an amazing amount of money and I can do all of the wonderful things that I want to do right off of the bat (i.e. improve my health, offer my Massage Therapy/Reiki/Acupressure servcies for free to people who truly need them without the worry if they can afford it, help make my family and friends, who always believed in me, lives a little easier, even people I haven't even met yet, etc.).

Now I realize some people view abundance differently and it just might mean increasing your clients if you are a business owner or just pay off a loan. But with that being said am I starting out too big? I've been working on all of my money issues and feel good about my progress. I even bought two of the same numbered lottery tickets in the same drawing and won $14. It is definitely a step in the right direction, but how do I build off of that? I am almost done with the first set of dvds and I find them fascinating. Gary and Adrienne are awesome, as well as the brave people who go through all those things on stage and in front of a camera!!! However, if they are working on emotional/physical feelings there is an immediate change, which I've also felt using this technique, but what about money? Other than the fact that money will show up at some point (minutes, hours, days, months, or even years) is there any other noticable change?

Thank you for reading this and I hope you're having a wonderful day!!!!

Alex =)

looking for a new job

RedHeadGirl — Tue, 04 Aug 2009 21:12:27 GMT

I have been looking for a new job for eight months and have found one yet. What I am doing wrong? I feel like I may be standing in my own way.

I need help.

Help with Gagging when Tapping on Abundance

daskeew — Wed, 19 Aug 2009 19:46:02 GMT

Hi,

I have been working on abundance for the last week and have something

I need some help with.

When testing my abundance afirmations for tail-enders, I started saying

"I have millions and millions of dollars." When repeating this, I develop

a sick feeling in my stomach and start to gag within a matter of seconds.

I then started tapping on "even though I get sick to my stomach and gag

when thinking of having millions of dollars.... I have repeated the basic recipe on this

15 to 20 times without any improvement.

Does anybody have any ideas of how to approach this or what I should try tapping on?

Any and all suggestions are most welcome.

Many thanks!

Feelings of strong electric current while taping for success...

UHU — Mon, 20 Jul 2009 18:23:25 GMT

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I recently tapped on something that seems to be a major issue.
I have experienced resistance to change before but this time something strange happened. Instead of feeling an emotion, I felt as if electricity was going through certain paths of my body especially my arms and my chest. I started curling up, pushing my shoulders on the inside exactly as I used to stand as a child as a reaction to that current. The more I was tapping on positive resolutions or emotions the stronger the current became. Tapping on the negative emotions helped weaken the current instead. I tap regularly and I have made leaps in my therapy thanks to EFT yet I have never experienced anything like this before.

The issues I was tapping on are related to personal and financial success.

My father told me a number of times as a child and teenager that he had failed my education and my mother threatened me that if I did not study enough I would end up behind the cashier of a supermarket.

I felt both my parents had failed me as a person (as a creation you can fail). I have this lingering belief that I cannot have success if I am my parents' failure. It is just impossible and I should not contradict them. It is forbidden or else...

My parents divorced when I was 8 and that too made me feel like a failure. My parents had failed their marriage that meant to me I was the cause of the failure or the failed marriage itself. When I say I, I mean the child back then.

I also was tapping on the idea that I did not have to feel like I was my parents but I could love them and be separate from them. I also tapped on the right to be autonomous and no longer depend on them financially and the right to have success in spite of their divorce and their feelings of failure.

I don't remember when electricity started feeling so unbearable that I curled myself up. I can still feel it in my upper arms, my chest and my tongue as writing this post.

Have you heard of such phenomenon? If so, what does it mean?

Thanks a lot.

Confusion from a Newbie!

van17 — Fri, 04 Sep 2009 16:40:25 GMT

Dear Forum

I only discovered EFT this week, and since have been watching all the wonderful instruction videos on YouTube, and tapping along (I've also got my husband in on the act also). We've had some incredible results in this very short time,but one thing we have both noticed is that whenever we tap for abundance, prosperity etc, our current situation suddenly gets worse.Unexpected things happen; clients who always pay without fail, suddenly don't pay their invoice, very high bills arrive which seem completely wrong, more money gets taken out of our account via direct debits than usual etc etc.

We have decided we will keep tapping as it could just be our energy is suddenly all over the place and it needs time to settle. But I'm not sure if this is really the problem.

What's happening? Any ideas would be greatly welcomed.

Overcoming block: others better than you?

Evan — Wed, 26 Aug 2009 23:17:38 GMT

I am starting a small company and I am having some thoughts/blocks around others being better than we are. More specifically, when you know that others will do a much better job in your field than you can. And when you even think your clients would be best served to go to your competitors (which is definitely not a sound business strategy).

How would you handle this? How do you position yourself, and handle it all, when you have for a fact that there are other companies in your field that you can't compete with (at this stage) in terms of quality of work?

Also any relevant pointers (articles/audio/scripts) would be useful.

Thanks!

Question about core issue (help in finding it)

cmroll — Sun, 23 Aug 2009 23:07:35 GMT

I have been practicing EFT for a couple of years and I have seen a practitioner for abundance issues. I have done a search in the forum for this issue but I am still having trouble.

Whenever I tap for abundance...ANY kind of abundance...wealth, health, relationships..anything....I KNOW there is a block. I can not find the block or the core issue. I have tried so many things....and it will not surface.

Here is what happens: I can do visualization and other methods and actually get to where I feel good 'in pictures.' I can picture abundance but as soon as I try to put it in words or tap on it...I get a physical feeling...almost like bumping in to a wall. I also get an adrenaline rush in my stomach for a very small moment and then I feel the bump into the wall feeling. No matter what I have done or read about common blocks...none of them ring true for me. How can I get past this block?

Is there a way to move on without knowing the specific reason?

Thanks so much!

Cmroll

Lucid Dreams.

Ghost3DE — Sat, 11 Jul 2009 03:30:57 GMT

I have an interesting question.

Theoretically EFT could be used to induce lucid dreams? Since Lucid Dreaming is very much an Emotional/Conscious/Mental process, What i am wondering is how would someone use EFT for Lucid Dreaming?

The key points needed to lucid dream are being able to remember your dreams in detail and to be able to realise you are dreaming inside a dream.

Anyway has anyone here had experience using EFT this way? How did it work out for you?

Anyone that has an idea how EFT could be implemented to lucid dreaming please give me an example i am very interested to know and hopefully i can get a little bit of knowledge from it.

Cheers.

G3DE.

I am just so tired

teann — Wed, 01 Jul 2009 13:54:11 GMT

I am so tired of visualising having money and affirmations and writing it all down and being grateful for everything that isn't going my way and being grateful for things that are going my way and tithing and working hard and doing my best and being cheerful and really believeing its all going to change and really bel;ieving I have everything I want and being cheerful about where I am at and tapping on things that make me feel bad and being hypnotised, doing childhood regression stuff, meditating, the one command, etc.....

all to be in debt and dependent on a man I haven't loved in years, to be stuck in the same boat and still be treated the way I am in my neighborhood and by my family. (But hey you guys are always respectful...thank you very much:)

I just want one thing to work today. I don't care which technique...even if its the old fashioned hard work ethic...I would take it. But that doesn't even seem to work for me.

Venting...thanks for listening.

hoping to attract some abundance my way

HealingTime — Tue, 04 Aug 2009 08:14:36 GMT

greetings to all,

I am new to the forums, but not so much to EFT itself. I have been through a great deal of trauma both emotional (both parents dying quite young and then running from an abusive b/f, who stalked me for a time. he's out of the picture now, so that's good), and physical (major car accident, coma, some paralysis, which thankfully healed eventually, but a back and neck injury that hasn't quite yet) in just the last 5 or so years. My body suffered a great deal, as did my emotional life. I haven't been able to maintain relationships, because I have felt like there must be something wrong with me to allow someone like my ex in my life, and I have also felt a burden, when I can't contribute as much as like, both in terms of being physically present, and in terms of being able to contribute financially. I don't expect a man to 'take care of me', but I have been unable to work, and have had to live on a small disability stipend. So I have stopped dating, for now. It's been quite a challenge emotionally and financially, but I believe in the power of God's grace. I have never starved, though, at times it looked like I might. Someone/something always came through. I was only homeless for a month, And I've had to reframe a lot of my thinking, as I used to be the one to take care of everyone else, both emotionally and financially. I used to do quite well. The entire experience has been quite humbling.

Regardless, I have looked on these events as teaching tools, and EFT has brought a lot of relief and healing to my life. I even quit smoking, and it's been well over a year and a half now. I credit that to EFT, and self hypnosis. So, now comes another challenge---asking for help. I have to admit , I feel a bit embarrassed asking. Since I still have some healing to do before I am ready to look for work, I wanted to use the time to study the EFT certification program. However, I don't have the money to spend 150 dollars for the Foundations Library dvd set. I understand that through Mr Craig's generosity in spreading the word, he has allowed those who have purchased these sets the permission to copy up to 100 reprints of these dvds.

I am wondering if anyone would be willing to send me a copy? I would certainly take care of shipping and handling charges, as I understand these cannot be resold, but I don't think there would be an objection to covering the costs?

I sincerely would appreciate the help. I truly am barely making ends meet, but I remain hopeful and positive that I can get out of this some how, some way, some day. And part of my goal is to be a counsellor, with a focus on those dealing with loss. I hope someone can help me. It would be greatly appreciated.

Happy Tapping! and thanks for reading,

EFT and Law of Attraction are the perfect match

gainback — Wed, 08 Jul 2009 03:23:57 GMT

Eventually people will come to understand that EFT and the Law of Attraction are a perfect match.

We understand that the Law of Attraction says that which is like unto itself is drawn, which basically means your get what you think and feel about. But when the issues keep on holding you back from achieving what you want in life then EFT is the perfect tool to help you over come it.

Those of us you teach LOA understand that everything starts in the mind, everything starts in thought, which means everything has an emotion. And since the cause of all negative emotion is a block in the bodies energy system. EFT is the obvious tool to fix it.

The reason why people don't think LOA and EFT don't work is because they don't pay attention to those subtle movements that happen when they are not looking. But LOA and EFT work even if you don't think they do, the LOA is always bringing you evidence in all things.

You see evidence of LOA when you talk about being broke ... and you are.

You see evidence of LOA when you talk about how sick you are...and you are

LOA and EFT are a perfect, one helps you identify it, and the other gets rid of it

Gillian Tarawhiti - Personal Development Specialist

http://www.gainbackyourlife-eft.com

emotional freedom

marree — Sun, 12 Jul 2009 22:47:22 GMT

Is there anyone who has completed their "therapy" say, a year ago, who can discuss what emotional freedom is, and how it feels.

Is there an ending to your therapy?

Appreciating the little abundances

successfuleft — Sat, 21 Mar 2009 17:14:47 GMT

Hi all,

One common theme I notice among people starting to explore the use of EFT for Abundance is the tendency to focus on what is NOT in their life. For instance, people often tap on wanting a $100,000 per year job when they currently make $30,000 or maybe even are unemployed. It's hard for most people's systems to know how to go from barely getting by to winning $100 million in the lottery. In the language of the Law of Attraction, what happens for most people is that we wind up focusing what we DON'T have. Consistent thought patterns of NOT having $100,000,000 or a $100,000 per year job is not likely to bring greater abundance.

One way to do something different that's been working for my clients lately is tapping on how good it feels when surprising small abundances pop up in our lives. For instance, one client found $30 in her purse when she was cleaning it out. She tapped on how this good it felt. Soon thereafter, a client in her business gave her $150 instead of the $100 fee they had agreed on. She didn't even notice until she went to deposit it in the bank. Then she tapped on how good that felt. She recently sold more of a book she wrote in one day than she had in several months previously.

Another client is a realtor whose business had stalled due to the economy. She hadn't had a sale in quite awhile. Her friend offered her a part-time job doing some personal care with a family member. She took this $12 per hour part time position and tapped on how good it felt to have some money coming in. About 2 weeks later, she got a suprise full-time offer to work at a higher rate in a position where her boss also allowed her to continue to work on her most pressing real estate calls. She tapped on how good this felt. She recently got 2 offers for a big real estate deal on the same day after not having an offer for months. Now she's tapping on how good this feels.

I use this technique often in my own journey. To give you an idea of the results, yesterday I announced a new small group program in my coaching practice. Within 24 hours 7 of the 8 slots were filled.

I'm curious if others have tried anything like this.

With much love,

Paul

Question for Law of Attraction experts II

bkar — Sat, 27 Jun 2009 03:06:27 GMT

This is another question for Law of Attraction experts (see my original question with a similar heading).

When we are trying to correct something by using EFT, tapping on those issues regularly concentrates/attracts our attention to these issues. For example, we regularly tap on health issues trying to resolve them. But the same constant concentration on those issues, brings our attention to that again and again,

As a result, by definition of the Law of Attraction, we perpetuate and possibly amplify the (negative) issue. How do we rationalize and reconcile that?

By the way, it is not specific to EFT, as the same question pertains to any treating method.

NLP Visual Squash Technique - EFT Version?

wilkies0106aw — Mon, 04 May 2009 09:19:38 GMT

All,

Quite new to EFT, yet had amazing person results with the technique so far from just watching DVDs, reading books and listening to all mannar of recordings.I'm loving the big physical release shifts that I get,when I've really hit the nail on the head.

In NLP there is a technique called a visual squash. The basic premise is that an individual wants two things i.e a. Great Relationship and b. Great Career. Yet as you currently think about them they are mutually exclusive. i.e you can have a great relationship, but not a great career or vice-versa. By simply questioning each 'want'. i.e. What's the purpose of that? At a higher level you discover that both wants, actually want to lead you to the same higher end value. i.e love, happiness etc. Once you have the higher value, you can easily intergrate both parts and resolve the conflict.The technique can be and has been very poweful for me.

Is there such a technique within EFT? I've a conflict, which I can't seem to shift via the above technique. Even though I've tapped on both separate wants/issues with EFT. I hear myself stating and demonstrating in my mannerisms the same conflict, after the tapping. I'd like to collapse the conflict.

Happy Travels

Question for Law of Attraction experts

bkar — Fri, 15 May 2009 06:19:45 GMT

This is a question on Law of Attraction and EFT. I am reasonably experienced in EFT. But started using LOA only recently.

Very often in the affirmation part of EFT statement (especially in the Choices method), we use "I want..." or "I ask...".

Moreover, for example, "I ask..." is recommended stronger than "I choose...", as being more affirmative.

In Law of Attraction, "I want..." or "I ask...", by definition, implies a reference to lacking something, which defeats the objective, according to LOA.

How do you reconcile that?

Thank you.

Palace of Possibilities notes

kai — Sat, 13 Jun 2009 08:43:03 GMT

Hi Gary / everyone

Just went through your abundance section in the 'Palace ' and wanted to share what came up for me.

You addressed "Wealthy people are..." ( which the audience changed but I liked ) and had people add their perceptions? I did this and had some sucess, then branched off on my own tack of "Wealthy people have..." choices, time, freedom. But then I tried " Wealthy people attract..." and I hit the motherlode.

I have had money pass through my hands a couple of times in my life and keep giving it away, losing it and generally not keeping it. Why? I ask myself. Well when I addressed it this way I realised what some of my belief systems are around being wealthy - as a result of my experiences in that space. I have attracted envy, jealousy, hatred even, false friends, desperate people begging for help, those who would take advantage and people who send negative energy my way in their resentment of what they percieve as my "wealth". Wow. Scary stuff, no wonder I divest myself of large sums of money as quickly as possible. Makes me laugh now just thinking about it. Yes, I'm tapping it all away : ]

Hope you will include "What do wealthy people attract?" in your next abundance seminar Gary .. for guys like me.

Thanks for all your wisdom and space for the sharing of these ideas.

In love and light

Kai

Abundance Wave - initiated by Jo Dunning

Anonymous — Tue, 14 Apr 2009 03:50:34 GMT

Hi,

Wanted to post this here - since this is an Adundance forum ..... whoever wants can take part in this by just signing up. I believe that it will benefit everyone.

Thanks.
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Watch the video

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Simple things you can do

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2. Imagine what you would like to have more abundantly in your life, then give a little of that away to someone else. Give it freely, knowing there is more than enough to go around and it is easy to get as much as you want.

3. Go to a favorite non profit website and make a donation to their cause. Feel the Abundance of having enough to give some away.

4. Take a few cans of food to your local food bank and feel grateful for the Abundance of food you have in your life.

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10. Know you are deeply loved and take the chance to believe all of this is truly possible

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troubles with imaginig, and feeling emotion

c21 — Mon, 08 Jun 2009 15:40:10 GMT

Hi! I have problem with imagining and reminding, its not easy to do it. Another problem: i dont feel emotion when I remind something, but my body responding by rising the brows or fast opening the eyes. I don't feel any emotion during taping. can somebody tell me what should I do/tap?

What do you think happened?

RBrown — Sat, 06 Jun 2009 04:16:37 GMT

Hi all,

I'm new to the forums, but not so new to EFT. I found EFT several years ago through a youtube video.

Anyhow, back in the early 90's I came in contact with a book called Science and Health with Key to The Scriptures (Christian Science) by Mary Baker Eddy. I was fascinated to learn what this woman was sharing. In fact her life was fasinating. So, I started applying the princples taught in the book and even took something called Class Instruction that helps individuals learn and apply the principles on a deeper level. My life was wonderful, happy and I was attracting all kinds of stuff all the time. I even had several physical healings. I had a job I was fairly happy with. My sister and I had a gift basket business that was doing REALLY well. But in the late 90's I started to explore other things that seemed to be in line with what I was already involved with. Shortly thereafter, things started to go down hill and seems that my entire life has been spiraling out of control every since.

Although I made some changes in my life, it didn't seem to be enough to create such a negative outcome. My partner and I started a new business that we were passionate about and no matter what we do, we can't seem to make it work out for us.

We both started using EFT for Abundance and even purchased a lot of Carol Look's material. We follow along religiously with her material and tap daily, but nothing seems to change. We work almost around the clock in our business and still don't see not much progress. I can't get to the place of feeling anything using EFT, let alone anything from a 1-10. I simply feel nothing.

I've read so many times that when things are not happening for you, that you have some blocks to overcome, but how do you overcome them, if you don't know what they are? Then you read other places to hire a Practitioner (I did do that once, but still felt nothing). And now I'm to a point where I can't afford to hire a Practitioner. So my question is, what do you think happened? Why was I so successful and happy during the first part of my life? Did I not have the blocks then and acquired them later? And why can't I feel anything while using EFT? Why is EFT not working for me?

Thanks for listening and any advice is welcomed.

RBrown