Hi Tabris,
Congratulations on your success w/EFT so far!!!!
Some questions that you may want to ask yourself after you have done a few rounds of tapping:
- What is the payoff for me to binge on chocolate?
- Why do I need to stuff myself?
- What is the payoff for me stuffing myself?
- What memories to I have with chocolate or cookies that are coming up for me from when I was a child?
You use the information that you get from answering the above questions. EFT can help you with the CONFLICT that you have. A part of you is in control and another part is not. Here are some set-up phrases that might work. Even though:
- a part of me is in control, there is another part of me that isn't interested in being in control. Just give me cookies and chocolate and no one will get hurt. I love and accept the part of me that doesn't want to give up my goodies.
- my treats are the most important part of life for a part of me, and I haven't been willing to let my treats go. I love and accept that part of me.
- I don't think I can live without my treats or at least a part of me feels that way. I accept that part of me.
- there is a part of me that is sabotaging my efforts to eat right...
I just thought of "cookie monster" as a reminder phrase. My take on this is that it is your inner child who is responsible. Go easy on her... As you can see, she has a lot of power. I bet you can work out a deal
Hope this helps. Please let me know how it goes. By the way, you may want to consider finding an EFT practitioner who has experience in working with these kind of issues--if you can't figure it out yourself.
In appreciation,
JoAnn
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