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EFT was originally developed to reduce the therapy process from months/years down to minutes/hours. As emotional problems faded, both physical health and personal performance improved (often dramatically). As a result, EFT is spreading quickly among the healing community. It is an emotional version of acupressure wherein certain meridian release points are gently stimulated by tapping on them with the fingertips.







Male and Female

Last post 07-03-2009 12:26 PM by vernpeace. 4 replies.
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  • 07-02-2009 3:11 PM

    Male and Female

    This is a question for people who've facilitated EFT for other people besides using it directly on only themselves. Do you find that there is a difference between working with men and with women? Any themes regularly come up? Do the men need a bigger focus on personal power and the women on safety, or is this my imagination?

    Thanks!

    Rachel

  • 07-02-2009 6:04 PM In reply to

    Re: Male and Female

    Rachel, Could be the client base you are attracting -- each of us has a fractal that we draw to us with its own unique set of energy and patterns. The clients I attract seem to have a pattern of: my female clients are reclaiming their inner authority and power, my male clients are stepping into their unique authority but seeing the love in that power so realizing their vulnerabilities and power at the same time. So yes, there are themes but not not the ones you name. And that's perfect - we all have folks we are here to serve. How is it working for you to realize the themes you name? Hugs, Deborah
  • 07-03-2009 4:13 AM In reply to

    Re: Male and Female



    hi Rachel, the...temptation...to...put...people...
    into...neat...little...boxes...is...very...
    strong...some...how...we...think...it...will
    ...make...things...easier...however...this...
    is...rarely...the...case...vern...has...indeed
    ...found...the...opposite...to...be...true...
    i...used...to...wonder...why...folks...when...
    they...start...using...EFT...it...works...great
    ...and...then...less...and...less...so...this...
    was...very...puzzling...to...say...the...least...
    it...seems...the...more...we...need...to...understand
    ...about...EFT...the...less...it...seems...to...work
    ...the...simple...reason...is...to...much...BETA...
    brainwave...activity...so...just...tap, tap, tap...
    and...let...the...other...person...give...you...the
    ...theme...and...disperse...its...energy...please...
    dont...
    add...to...it!



    peace&love...vern




    p.s...just...do...it!..(EFT, that is)
  • 07-03-2009 8:30 AM In reply to

    • Mildred
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    Re: Male and Female

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    (Dear Forum,

    I am experimenting with trying to make sense of  Vern's posts so here goes.  I apologise in advance toVern as I am sure he will not appreciate this)

     

     

    Hi Rachel,

    The temptation to put people
    into neat little boxes is very
    strong. Some how we think it will
     make things easier. However this
    is rarely the case. I have indeed
     found the opposite to be true
    I used to wonder why folks, when
    they start using EFT, it works great
     and then less and less so. This
    was very puzzling to say the least.
    it seems the more we need to understand
     about EFT the less it seems to work.
     The simple reason is too much BETA -
    brainwave activity. So I suggest that we all just tap, tap, tap
    and let the other person give us the
     theme while we disperse its energy
    without adding to it.



    Peace &Love, Vern




    p.s. Just do it!..(EFT, that is)

    Mildred Thill,
    EFT-ADV, EFT Cert-I
    Brain Gym Instructor/Practitioner
    Anxiety Forum Co-Moderator
    www.emofree.ca
    Edmonton, Alberta, Canada
    Please visit my blog:
    http://eftedmonton.wordpress.com
  • 07-03-2009 12:26 PM In reply to

    Re: Male and Female

    "I apologise in advance toVern as I am sure he will not appreciate this)"...

     

    Mildred, surely...you...know...by...now...

    how...much...i...appreciate...you...my...dear...its

    ...just...assumptions...vern...dont...do...

     

    peace&love...

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