I have a friend who keeps getting these mouth ulcers inspite of taking  action  as soon as there seems to be a recurrence ,Once it starts it doesnt subside for days and is very painful and obstructive in normal activities like eating  brushing /dental hygiene etc She has  had several route canals in the mouth.

Since i read/practise the EFT newsletters everyday,i feel there are many core issues; i think there are issues of anger rage and helplessness which i have gathered by talking to her but i dont know how to tap and help her. Also can i do it surrogately for her How would i rephrase them

 Hello,

If your friend doesn't already know about EFT, perhaps you could introduce it to her and see what she thinks. You can also talk about the ideas you have - anger, rage, helplessness - to give her ideas for tapping. 

If you'd prefer to surrogate tap for her, the key is to be open to whatever messages come your way. So I suppose a good starting place would be, "Even though I have this rage...." and keep tapping and seeing where that takes you. You don't really have to rephrase in a special way; you can use the tapping phrases as if you were the person themselves.