Hello Deborah
With the unwanted sexual attaction from men in mind, you will want to focus on things such as the fact that you either knowingly or unknowingly created more space between you and men [in general] by making your body larger. Also in your mind, or in the words that you hear ringing truth, either from a person or society or even your own thoughts, men aren't as attracted to larger women so again, you've created that barrier between you and them by creating a dislike and/or unattractiveness to your self through your body.
There are others, but these are ones that should be addressed and as you do so, I'm sure you will come up with aspects surrounding them that connect and also require attention.
Let us know how you experience this healing process and release.
Peace, Kathleen
Kathleen Emmons, CBT, CCHT, EFT
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