Hi Kathryn,
I don't no why, but this line jumped out at me as something to possibly keep investigating.
kathrynhoyt:to overcome the writing on my walls about bowling better than men
Many times we unconsciously hold ourselves back due to safety issues i.e. it is not safe to be successful because...
Maybe ask yourself some questions like;
- If I excelled at bowling, who might be miffed at me or even upset?
- Are there any sibling situations or specific events that this remind me of i.e. being better than another or not being better to hold a family position or expectation?
- Possible father 'stuff' i.e. a successful dad that we can't outdo. Or maybe a brother? Maybe your mother, sister, cousin, friend?
- What would happen in my family/social life if I did excel at this?
- Would someone be jealous, envious, hurt etc?
Some food for thought. Karen :)
Here's a couple of great Carol Look interviews that may help to trigger something:
http://eft-revealed.com/blog/feeling-safe-to-change/
http://eft-revealed.com/blog/how-your-identity-impacts-your-life-with-carol-look/
Karen Nauman - C.Ht., P.Nlp - EFT Practitioner
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