Hi Everyone!

I am a caregiver.  I am taking care of this wonderful lady who has stage 4 brain cancer.  She is also deaf.  We communicate by writing notes, but I'm also learning some basic sign language.  She is a fighter.  At times she has extreme pain in her back.  She also has edema (her legs and feet are so swollen that the skin has cracked).  I've been wanting to help her with EFT but am hesitant to do so.  Does anyone have any suggestions?

Jo

Hello Majicat,

Well done for your work...

Maybe you could get this lady to write down her most acute emotions or symtoms and you could use your intuition to voice them for her and tap on her or maybe she could tap herself? She could always stop you and rectify for accuracy...Start on simple things, take suds so that you and her have a way to check if it is working which could be so encouraging. Of course, sometimes the improvement is delayed.

You could tap surrogately as your intention is obviously good.  You could have a little routine, introduce this as a possible energy tool...

Even though my feet and legs are so swollen and my skin is cracking, I deeply love and accept myself..

Even though I have sucvh intense pain in my back I love and accept myself...Ask her if she really loves and accepts herself...

I would try and create imagery and visualisation to promote well being and peace.

All the best,

Fabienne

Jo,

Please don't hesitate to use EFT! It is probably the most wonderful gift you can give her. You can join my group EFT-Cancer-Support-Study-Group-Subscribe@YahooGroups.com for a group of free downloads & print them off, so she can read them and then you can work on them together.

Definately, tap on her pain, place your hand on location of pain, and then do as many rounds as necessary, you can do the tapping on her, or she can. Just write the word of symptom and have her concentrate on that thought and hold it in her energy field. Repeating "All this pain".

Treat the edema in the same manner "Releasing all this fluid in my legs and all it stands for"

If she is on medication------------- See, article posted in yesterday's newsletter about wording and cancer remission by Lauren, and let her read it. Most of all she need HOPE.

I have an ongoing research survey posted on my website, based on Dr. Hamer's work and emotional issues that are common to people diagnosed with cancer, the results confirm his findings. Women scored higher than men, breast cancer patients the highest. All issues are tappable. Resolving these issues are extremely important and maybe the clue for her body to heal. She can process them in a journal.

Destressing the diagnosis is also important, it made a major difference for me, when I had mine. Dr. Hamer believes the diagnosis itself triggers enough stress to trigger a second location.

I understand how communication is difficult, I have hearing impairment, and it is as frustrating to me as it is to someone else, it also causes an emotional withdrawel. Louise Hay's book "You Can Heal Your Life" would be a great gift for someone to give her.

Loving Blessings,

Sylvia

PS. Keep us posted, thank you!

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